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Advice to the Parents

By Sheikh Dr. Yasir Qadhi
Published on Mar 03, 2015

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Advice to the parents: The parents now, realize that, Allah ('Azza wa jal) has given you a role. That role is not to be a dictator; that role is not to control each and every matter of the lives of your children, but that role is that of 'Murabbi' - That role is that of a nourisher. And that nourishment will be a lot when it's a seedling, and as a seedling grows, that nourishment will minimize. This is what your role is. So don't think short term, think long term. Think 'what's gonna happen to this child 15/20 years down the line if I treat him in this manner versus that manner'. Don't think short term - Think long term. Remember! That your child might go ways and do things you don't like, but in the long run, you want your child to have this perception: "I can always go back to my mother and father no matter what I do". You don't want your child to...as soon as they're independent, leave the house, and that's what's happening, a number of households...we know this. I know places where as soon as the kid's found a job, because the home environment was SO stifling, they hated it so much, they just disappeared. Realize! That thinking long term will save you in this regard. Your role is to provide an atmosphere of love, an atmosphere of comfort...no doubt you'll be strict at times, but think long term, even when it comes to this strictness.

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Assalaamu Alaikum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakaathuhu

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Advice to the Parents

By Sheikh Dr. Yasir Qadhi
Published on Mar 03, 2015

Video Created by & for The Daily Reminder ┇ TDR ┇

Donate Now to produce HD Islamic Reminders - Here's the link: http://www.gofundme.com/The-Daily-Rem...

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Advice To The Parents ᴴᴰ ┇ Must Watch ┇ by Sheikh Dr. Yasir Qadhi ┇ TDR Production ┇

Advice to the parents: The parents now, realize that, Allah ('Azza wa jal) has given you a role. That role is not to be a dictator; that role is not to control each and every matter of the lives of your children, but that role is that of 'Murabbi' - That role is that of a nourisher. And that nourishment will be a lot when it's a seedling, and as a seedling grows, that nourishment will minimize. This is what your role is. So don't think short term, think long term. Think 'what's gonna happen to this child 15/20 years down the line if I treat him in this manner versus that manner'. Don't think short term - Think long term. Remember! That your child might go ways and do things you don't like, but in the long run, you want your child to have this perception: "I can always go back to my mother and father no matter what I do". You don't want your child to...as soon as they're independent, leave the house, and that's what's happening, a number of households...we know this. I know places where as soon as the kid's found a job, because the home environment was SO stifling, they hated it so much, they just disappeared. Realize! That thinking long term will save you in this regard. Your role is to provide an atmosphere of love, an atmosphere of comfort...no doubt you'll be strict at times, but think long term, even when it comes to this strictness.

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Assalaamu Alaikum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakaathuhu

*This video is produced by & for The Daily Reminder. Feel free to re-upload and share [no credits required].

**No Music was used in the production of this video

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Speaker: Shaykh Dr. Yasir Qadhi

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